We have seen cases
where people commits s*icide, due to heart break situations. Here are
tips that will make you stay away from getting heart broken. Below are
the tips;
1. Forgive The
Person That Hurt You: Forgiveness is the number one secret of recovering
from heart break. When you truly forgive someone that had hurt you, it
generate your own healing. Heart break comes as a result of
disappointment or hurt from a love one. There are a lot people in
marriage yet heartbroken. Most cases as a result of unfaithfulness from
spouse.
It could really hurt when a spouse cheats on you. But Forgiveness is the
only relief peel to be freed from hurts and heart break. Unforgiveness
can hold you in a spot; it is like drinking poison and expects another
person to get sick, it can hinder your access to God and your future.
Unforgiveness or bitterness over a past hurt is telling yourself you do
not need a future spouse or honeymoon.
A lot of people are not in a fruitful relationship today because of past
hurts. They keep transferring their past experience to the very
relationship they are into, at the end, they mess it up. They become
over suspicious, careful and they refuse to trust, and without trust
love had no foundation.
Love is the engine that drives every relationship to its destination.
Forgive everyone that had hurt you in the past and treat every future
relationship or spouse as a fresh person..
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2 Learn To Let Go:
there is a huge difference between forgiveness and letting go of your
hurt. Until you let go of a bitter relationship, you will not see a
better one. If a partner show you either in words or attitude that you
are not appreciated, do not stay in such relationship. The earlier you
let go and position yourself for another relationship, the faster you
get healed.
Every singles lady should know, when a man wants to choose a life
partner, is like going to the market to purchase a product, He is like
buyer and you are like the product. Every buyer wants to purchase a
product that suit the purpose he or she is purchasing it for. Also
buyers look out for products with added values.
So when a man walks out on you to pick another woman, do not mourn over
him for too long, rather improve your product “you” so that another
buyer can come and purchase you. Stop praying over a dead relationship
so your healing process can begin for another fruitful relationship.
Learn to let go of the past and look forward to a brighter future. Stop
blaming yourself for what you could have done right, it was not meant to
be, he or she was your learning process so you can be perfect for your
future partner. I want to encourage you, if any person wants to walk out
of your life, let them walk, they are not part of you, a part of you
will never leave you. Let go of your past so you can let loose of your
honeymoon. Forget about it, a large percent of your Today’s mistake is
for your tomorrow’s intake.
3. Encourage
Yourself: Encouraging yourself is very important to your healing process
and also it helps to boost up your self-esteem. Always see yourself as
God sees you. Do you know why God calls you god, because He had never
created a brand like you before neither will there be any after you.
That is who God is, no one before Him or will there be any after Him. Be
conscious of the fact that you are a peculiar brand that will never be
repeated in the history of the earth, any person that walks out of your
life has lost a treasure. Encourage yourself and build up
yourself-worth. People come after values, when you build good value in
yourself, spouse will hunt for you.
4. Do Not Be In A
Hurry To Enter Into Another Relationship:
People often say, “The best way to overcome a heart break is to get into
another relationship.” Sorry, that is the worse way to overcome a heart
break because there will soon be another heart break. Always be careful
not to let situations control your life, be in charge of situations.
Take your time to go into another relationship, forget about the hurt
but learn from it. Know where you missed it. Be sincere to know your
share or contribution to the failed relationship then improve on it in
your next possible relationship. Be careful not to make same mistake in
your next relationship and try to be open.
A lot of people make the mistake of transferring their past experience
to the very relationship they are into, at the end, they mess it up.
They become over suspicious, careful and refuse to trust, and trust is
the foundation of love. Love is the engine that drives every
relationship. Forget about your past hurt, and treat every future
relationship or spouse as a fresh person.
Every relationship is a new opportunity to sell yourself, do not shut
down some of your good characters or qualities simply because the other
person did not appreciate it. Make sure you are completely healed before
thinking of another relationship.
5. Know Every Step
Back Is A Preparation For A Step Forward: I read a story of a lady that
was in a relationship with a guy; he called her to say he no longer
feel anything for her in the presence of his friends and said it was
over. She begged him kneeling for about 2 hours yet he refused to even
look at her. In the middle of that scene her phone rang, she picked it
up and there was a male voice, “I am Mr. X”. We dated while growing up.
Before I go further, are you married?” She replied “no, but why?” He
said, “thank God”. She replied, “What is it to thank God for? I am 34
years old and not yet married.” He proposed then and there. He added,
“you do not need to give me a reply take your time and pray about it, I
had informed my people, I even got your number from my younger brother”.
She got up from her knees and walked out of her ‘EX’. As at the time I
read this story he had flown to Nigeria from the States to file for her
and they walked down the aisle on the April 13, 2013 in Maryland U.S.A.
Yours may not exactly happen this way, but know any one that walked out
of your life is pushing you forward to a better future. The best is yet
to come. Practice these steps and you will overcome.
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